Tuesday, January 01, 2013

My 2013 resolutions


First, here's how I fared the previous year:


  • Don't sweat the small stuff––Avoid stress by all means. Online, this means not being part of the lynch mob, especially if I'm not being part of the solution.
Done. I can't even remember being ruffled by anything this year, as in nada. This went as far as accepting the Philippines' loss in Miss Universe very gracefully, lol. But seriously, I haven't been snarky; I've been very calm about hotly debated issues, such as the RH bill; I didn't devote a single tweet about #amalayer girl; I calmly accepted the headache that is Globe Telecom. Even my latest breakup was (on my end) wonderfully Zen. What this has thought me is that: there is a bigger world other than mine; and it certainly does not revolve around me or my opinions.


  • Write letters once a month––it doesn't even have to be handwritten
Failed.


  • Continue reading one new book each month
Done––sort of. I wasn't able to finish a book in April, though I made up for it in June. Will correct it this year :-)


  • De-clutter every quarter
Failed. In my defense, I haven't amassed unnecessary stuff this year. My purchases were kept at a minimum all-year round, so while I do still need to do some de-cluttering, it wasn't exactly imperative.


  • I must be able to do 100 push ups––in one set––by the end of the year.
Failed. I can only do 40 straight.


  • Be more demonstrative in my appreciation of other people; constantly give positive feedback
I'll leave my friends and colleagues to be the judge of this.


  • Master the art of tolerance––not everything is about me or pertains to me. It's not about me unless you categorically address it to me; otherwise, dedma!
Done, with flying colors. See #1.


  • Use my Fisheye 2 again: develop one roll each month
FAILED! I haven't finished my roll from 2011!


  • Write at least one feature article a month
FAILED. :-P


  • I want to do more for the Pinoy LGBT community
Failed :-{

A belated resolution I made was to be debt-free and always pay my credit card balance in full every due date. I am proud to say I paid my bank not a single cent of interest fee the entire year. They must hate me, lol.

Okay, so that's 4/10, lol. But owing to the first and last resolutions, I really think I became a better person in 2012 :-D


For 2013, I will:

  • Continue to not sweat the small stuff.
  • Continue to read one book a month. My roster has to include an English classic, a nonfiction, Filipino literature, and a book published in 2013.
  • Write outside of work once a week—whether handwritten notes, a feature story, an entry in my blog, or journal.
  • Watch a TED video and read a More Intelligent Life article at least once a week.
  • Enroll in a class—any will do.
  • 100 push ups, let’s do this.
  • Spend the weekend at my parents’ at least once every quarter.
  • Taste a different bottle of wine every month.
This year, I've also chosen a word which will serve as my theme and inspiration for my choices: spring. 


To rise, leap, act, move swiftly; to be released from a constrained position; to come into being by growth.


Happy New Year!




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kit kat said...


sama ako sa class! i'm thinking a craftmanila class :)

Jason D. said...


Shucks, ang bano ko sa mga crafts-crafts na yan, haha! In any case, do you have info on the 2013 sched? :-)

davanita said...


No idea but I want to try rubber printing (or cutting ba yun?).
Kailangan mo matuto ng crafts para manalo ka sa gift wrapping contest this year haha

kit kat said...


i have no idea but the rubber printing (cutting?) looks interesting.
you need to learn crafts para manalo ka sa gift wrapping contest this year! :p

Jason D. said...


Sige, I'll tweet you if ever I stumble on the sched. Accepted ko na pahirapan manalo sa contest, lol.

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